When is the right time?

Why do things happen at a particular time? Why do you say certain things at a particular time. It is most of the time (ha.. ha) at the right time. We feel that if we unwind time, we can change things, well Time Travel is close to proving that right. Herw I would like to discuss about when being the right time to do a particular action, be it a task, taking a decision or just not doing something.

  1. Now

Yes, Now is the right time to do a task that is to be done.Waiting, giving excuses, procrastinating are reasons. By now I mean if possible start, if not, start planning, or the least thinking about it. Let me give you an example, The minute you receive an invitation to attend a wedding, and decide you are going, all you think of is clothes to be worn for the mammoth occasion, then the tickets. Why? ? Because that’s where the enjoyment begins.

Similarly, when there is something you have to do start planning and eventually it would happen. But if you don’t want to do it, it doesn’t work out. It is basically because you didn’t put in the effort to do it, or plan it. Probably the least you did was to think how NOT to do it.

So, when is the right time? It is now, or never.

2. When there is deadline

Accept it, we have all gone through this, the date fixed which cannot be compromised is the deadline, if you know that it can be pushed, on would push the date with all might. That probably is because you are not very interested or you have other priorities or you consider yourself a Pro at the task.

But advice, why wait for the last minute? is an every-ready statement when another person delays or complains.

If majority of the crowd pushes the deadline, the deadline comes back alive in the form of rejection and re-working on the same project. That is also the reason so many pitches go unheard or not appreciated.

The next time you have a task, work towards it with greater speed, and that is the right time to complete it.

3. Before Time

The best example of before time is the making of YouTube videos by certain YouTubers whose work was viewed during the lockdown, be it cooking videos, educational videos, comic content or just about anything that had the right combination of music and dialogues.

When something brews, get about it and start it. Bitcons and Cryptocurrencies were buzzwords once upon not a long time back. When things are new, you would also get genuine and select information about it, but when it is all over, the sheen gets duller.

Beginning something before time will undergo many changes but that is called exploring all possibilities, because when you are closer to the deadline, all you want to do is submit

Questy Musings is a musing with a question. I have certain questions that keep me busy when i have nothing to do. Sharing my thoughts aloud, I wonder if this post touched you and made you reflect upon certain aspects of your life, my blog, my write-up here has achieved its mission. Let me know where are you? See you around soon.

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The only reason for time is so that everything doesn’t happen for once

Albert Einstine

Where am I?

Where am I? I am here and so are you? Why are we here? Where are you? You are where you are supposed to be. You will reach where you are destined to. After trying to discover who am I (in my previous post https://apprendre24.wordpress.com/2021/08/08/who-am-i/ ) , here I am trying to decipher where am I, despite having my address on the Adhaar card, I can still question my humble soul about its domicile. Let’s do it!

If everything was in our hands, we would have been on Space – X with Musk. Chuckle 😉

  1. The Marriage

I need to address (pun intended) the concept of marriage here, where there is a change of place for most women who go on to stay with their in-laws (of course, the trend is changing now, a little better than ever), a complete change of scene where she is a new-comer rebooting her life. A fact that I never-ever understood! Why??

But as one reaches the marriageable age, things are different, sometimes all some young ladies want is a break, and this is the perfect one (with a hubby and a Honey-Moon, not mentioning the laws that have to be abided by.. ha ha!!)

I choose to believe that a married spouse is filled with strength and can re-start over again, and the laws 😉 need a change in life-style, and therein enters the spouse stirring various emotions leading to a mush-required change. The spouse is at the right place at the right time to put the house in order!!

Note: In earlier times, I would have typed the lady instead of spouse. With changing times, lets change our vocabulary.

2. Education

This comes way before marriage; now it is more of a personal choice after School, but earlier the Hostel or Boarding school were dreaded phrases.

The education received outside the house is real and stays with you. At home, everything is taken for granted. If you went away from home to study, your have learnt life skills with education. Lucky you!

Where am I? If you are at a place that you aren’t happy, consider it a learning experience, if you are at a place that is difficult to adapt to, be it the heat, the cold, the vibes, the aura or the ambiance, try moving around things to get comfortable. I can vouch for this. Why are you in a particular place? You would know that after you leave it!

3. Your choice

Where are you? Not by luck or marriage or work, but by choice. If you are the person who made a choice and got to go there, kudos to you. You stay there irrespective whether you like it or not, YOU STAY PUT, because it is your choice.

Also your choice is through a conviction that you have very strongly stood by. The choice is always yours!!

In my opinion, where you are is the right place as of now, but if you feel the need to change, do it, however difficult.

Questy Musings is a musing with a question. I have certain questions that keep me busy when i have nothing to do. Sharing my thoughts aloud, I wonder if this post touched you and made you reflect upon certain aspects of your life, my blog, my write-up here has achieved its mission. Let me know where are you? See you around soon.

This post is a part of Blogchatter Half Marathon’ : https://www.theblogchatter.com/

E-Book Talk: The story of a Story

Name of the E-book: The story of a Story

Author: Ravish Mani

E-Book Released on: 21 May 2021

Available on: The Blogchatter website: https://www.theblogchatter.com/download/the-story-of-story-by-ravish-mani

Number of pages: 47

Genre: Writing

Book Blurb: The book, The Story of STORY, talks about important aspects of storytelling through the story of STORY itself from evolutionary perspective. It mainly deals with why people read stories and how to leverage it to write impactful stories for providing powerful aesthetic experience to the readers.

About the book: The Story of a story by Ravish Mani is an absolutely inspiring book for authors or aspiring authors. It covers different aspects, layered beautifully talking about the protagonist, arousal of emotions in readers, belief formation, etc. The book systematically breaks down the story of a story with excellent examples to help the reader understand very well.

The examples deserve an extra mention, they communicate the message diligently, and I personally need to re-read the book a couple of times more to understand the depth it wants an author to reach.

There is a spiritual touch to the book where the author talks of desire, karma, pain and pleasure. It is truly to be read to experience this aspect.

The author’s laptop had crashed two days prior to the submission, but the effort of launching the E-book typed on a phone is commendable. The cover page could get more creative as it is the first impression of he book.

The author has given brief information, strong words and even stronger titles that are on point. The not so long book can be read soon, but an aspiring author must make notes while reading. The miscellaneous topics are a bonus to the readers. The author’s earnest desire to share information is mentioned in his own words “It invoked a desire in me to provide useful information to aspiring authors by sharing my expertise in the field of storytelling by launching a book through this Carnival.”

This book can be downloaded from the Blogchatter website. It is a must read and will keep you engrossed with the story of a Story. It has something very transparent and raw which must be experienced.

About the Author:

Amazon.com: Ravish Mani: Books, Biography, Blog, Audiobooks, Kindle

Ravish Mani is a life adviser and story consultant. He’s known in the blogosphere for his spiritual approach, analytical abilities, multidimensional perspectives, and helping nature.
He is an introvert but always ready for meaningful interaction. He lives a simple life & is fascinated by the human mind.He believes you don’t read a book, you read a mind. He loves reading books, and through books, the mind of their authors.
To know more about him, get in touch with him.
Email: booksasisee@ravishmani.com
Twitter: @ravishmani
Instagram: booksasisee

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