Blessed or not? #BlogchatterA2Z

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The second post for Blogchatter A2Z is here. The Theme “Questions you muse about” is a reading and learning experience. A conversation with your heart emotes sensitivity whereas your brain sensitizes you to reality. I hope to achieve a balance.

Today’s musing is about being blessed or not?

It is usually on a bad day that this question pops up in your mind. Then begins the comparison with others. First tip: Do not compare.

Stop thinking about the present situation (which is not easy). Divert you mind, drink some water, listen to your favourite song. Then slowly think of the fresh air you are breathing, (with the rising levels of pollution). That’s the first thing showing that your are blessed. This is reason enough for you to be blessed.

Stop suffocating yourself with unhealthy thoughts in this pure air, and move forward. Thinking ahead, always look at the larger picture and count your blessings. Not everyone lets you down, it is just a few people or a particular situation that urges you to ask yourself whether you are blessed or not. Get out of the cocoon and spend time with people who make you feel you are blessed.

Expect validation from those who respect you not from those who expect from you.

We are all blessed in some way or the other. Comparison reduces self-esteem. Hence consider yourself the best, perform (on a day-to day basis) like you are the best, and there is not stopping you from being the best.

Keep counting your blessings, and infinity is just round the corner.

Au revoir.


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Am I ARTICULATE enough?


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Many a time, there has been a situation where the conversation has led to an argument and then, a misunderstanding. Hope the “many a time” becomes “rarely” after a good read here.

“Am I articulate enough?”

This is a question that you can ask yourself when you recollect your thoughts about a conversation that didn’t go your way the right way. Were you saying what you actually wanted to say? Well, if yes then great, if no then even a single gesture could have given you away.

Speaking is a skill , that includes not only the right words, but also the appropriate facial expressions and body language. The words must have instructions or information just right for the listener. Do not try to say more than required especially in formal situations. Informal is an open field where your relationship with the speaker or speakers differ. Here too there are differences, repressed anger that is usually released in the form of humour, love for a particular person is usually displayed in the form supporting statements.

I urge you to look back on a few situations and recollect your words whether they were right or not, I also encourage you to prepare… yes, for a similar situation in the future where you can be articulate enough to get the job done. Some may say we will never get into a similar situation, but I believe that if things are not happening the way you want it to most of the time, then the problem is yours, stop blaming and take charge of your words that will immediately change into action.

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#20 Theme Reveal AtoZ 2019 “Questions you muse about “

We spend more time with ourselves than with anybody. All the time we are thinking, looking around, listening to sounds, contemplating and taking decisions based on our experience. Also we are questioning our actions  (previous ones and the ones that we are about to make). Is it the right thing to do? Why did I react like that? Was I  provoked? Should I have said no?

I am going to let the cat out of the bag and ask you the questions directly. That’s my blog and that is its identity. Answer the questions and voilà, one step closer to face the reality of life.

Living life to the fullest is not having all the answers but being ready to face the questions with complete determination.

I am sure the April ride is going to be a complete Blockbuster with summer setting in here in India, vacation for school-goers, Cricket-lovers having their hands full(with the TV remotes of course), and a selected few like us who will dabble AtoZ without missing an alphabet.

This is written as a part of Theme Reveal 2019 for Blogchatter AtoZ

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Today has just begun. I wrote my first #100 word story/poem.

https://www.momspresso.com/parenting/questy-musings/story/the-heart-knows-it

More thoughts on the same idea follow. The beginning is always difficult, once you catch steam there is nothing stopping you. Do what your heart tells you.

Here are 16 tips to follow your heart.

  1. Spend more time with yourself.
  2. Once you are there (with yourself), observe your ideas.
  3. Write/Type them down.
  4. Pay keen attention to the people you think of.
  5. They would usually be the ones you love or hate, or love to hate for whatever reason.
  6. Make note of them.
  7. Revisit your last meeting/intense conversation with them.
  8. Surely there is a connection between  your idea/thought and that person. Find it.
  9. Either that person is encouraging your idea or restricting it.
  10. Try and reason out why?
  11. Focus on your thoughts again.
  12. Similar thoughts, pursue it.
  13. Different thoughts.
  14. Reason out why?
  15. Finally wind up for the day.
  16. The next day if you have point 2 ideas recurring, you are an independent thinker. Go for it.

 

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Hi-Five Teens

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B: I remember it’s you dad’s birthday.

C: Then why don’t you give him some ideas. I am already tired after a long session of Math.

D: Why not get tickets for his favourite movie?

A: Yeah!  That sounds like a wonderful idea. My dad loves Bollywood movies and my mom, Hollywood. How do we work that out?

B: By directing a ho-bo-wood movie with Priyanka Chopra and Tom Cruise. Sorry…Nick Jonas.

C: That’s not cool. I prefer Tom cruise not Priyanka Chopra.

A: Guys, not a movie… something that he would remember.

D: Why not ask you mom to make his favourite dish?

B: My mom is always in the kitchen, why do you want moms to be in the kitchen, give his mom some breathing space!!

A: Thanks buddy.

C: Whatever.

A: Okay, I think  it’s time for me to think. Mom and I want to give something personal, filled with memories which would last a lifetime.

D: My.. My…My… you sound so romantic.

A: Yes, any problem?

D: Not at all, I am liking this conversation. Let’s see… personal, memories and long-lasting.

C: Long-lasting could be a painting like Mona Lisa. Till date the smile has lasted and different people have different views about it.

B: And memories is an thought which gives you a happy vibe.

A: Now my friends sound like MY friends, let the talk go on.

D: Personal is something given which a person uses regularly or at least looks at everyday with love, am I right?

A: I think so.

C: How about an Instagram story wishing your dad, with your mom and you saying Happy birthday to him? Wouldn’t that be cool?

A: Of course it would be cool and hot at the same time!! And it’s not for everyone, I want it to be only for Dad.

D: Then I think you should get an image of you and your mom with a speech bubble saying “Happy Birthday”.

A: That sounds interesting. It has a personal touch, it would last a life time and what better memory than mom and me.

C: Where would you get one so soon?

D: I can make it on Insta. Just watsapp me a pic of your mom and you together.

A: Sure, can we get it printed and framed today?

D: Anything is possible in today’s world.

C: Why don’t we get it sketched? It’s trending nowadays.

B: My mom can do it. We could ask her. (In a hushed tone!)

C: Why not?

D: Yes, after college. His mom makes delicious cutlets. Sorry, but I don’t want to send her to the kitchen.

B: That’s fine. You can fry them and eat them too, today she’ll sketch.

D: Super!! I am in.

A: Wait on people! Decision without the main person. It’s my dad’s birthday.

C: I am also in… For the  cutl… sketch! Personalised sketch.

A: Wouldn’t it be a bother for your mom!

B: Not at all! She would love it.

A: I’ll just call mom and confirm.

A: She says fine and has invited you all for dinner today!

C: Yuhooo! No studying today!

D: I think my parents too wouldn’t mind, but I shall confirm.

A: Come on, I’ll ask mom to talk to aunty.

B: The party begins at my place.

 

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Cinquième Préférence

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I prefer English today, I want a larger audience.

I prefer to write, I want to say something.

I prefer to smile, I want to be happy.

I prefer to be strong, I want to stand against the tide.

I prefer to dance, I want to groove to the music.

I prefer to stand alone, I will stand strong.

I prefer to talk to my friends, I know my family always listens.

I prefer the sunrise, I know the sunset would be beautiful.

I prefer to give my best shot today, hopefully tomorrow’s best would be better.

I prefer interacting with real people, I know Sophia, the first robot to be granted citizenship by Saudi Arabia, founded by Elon Mask would comment “That’s wonderful”.

I prefer coffee, I want to stay awake,

 

 

 

4 rules to Trademark

via Daily Prompt: Trademark

Hello… Here we are again trying to make a mark on this beautiful world. I hope we don’t leave a stain. Trademark is a logo, or the USP of a company or a product. We are not products or company to have a trademark.

But we have to leave this world with a memory of ourselves, so

trademark your individuality,

trademark your essence,

trademark your ideas,

trademark your innocence

and make this world a better place to live in.

Ciao until next time.

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